Struggles and Solutions

Hey everyone,

I wanted to share something personal today—something that shaped the person I’ve become. Growing up, I always struggled with being introverted and not as talkative, especially around kids my age. While others were bonding and laughing in their groups, I often felt out of place, like I didn’t quite fit in.

I was also very sensitive—so much so that sometimes teachers would pair me with the ADHD kids during activities because they thought I’d be calm and patient enough to work with them. At the time, I didn’t fully understand what that meant, but it made me feel even more out of sync with my peers.

It wasn’t easy. I sometimes felt like my thoughts and emotions were too much to handle. I wanted to say so much but struggled to find the right words, many people don't understand how hard it feels to have the mindset to do something, but can't do it because of other factors.... That’s when I turned to writing.

Writing became my safe space, my way of making sense of the world when everything felt overwhelming. It helped me organize the chaotic thoughts in my head and express the feelings I couldn’t say out loud. Whether it was creating stories, jotting down ideas, or simply scribbling random emotions in a notebook, writing gave me clarity. It was like having a conversation with myself—a way to process everything without fear of judgment.

Over time, writing didn’t just help me express myself; it also gave me confidence. It became my voice when I didn’t feel like I had one, and it gave me a way to connect with others who shared similar interests. Slowly, I started to embrace my introverted nature, realizing it wasn’t a weakness but a strength.

Looking back, I’m grateful for those struggles because they led me to something I truly love. Writing has not only helped me overcome my insecurities but also shaped my identity. It reminds me that being sensitive and introspective isn’t a flaw—it’s a superpower.

So, to anyone who feels like they don’t quite fit in or struggles to find their voice: try writing. Pour your thoughts onto a page, and don’t worry about it being perfect. Just let it be you. Even if writing isn't your thing, find that one thing that will help you shape your self, I know you'll find it soon! :)

What’s something that’s helped you find your voice or overcome struggles? I’d love to hear about it in the comments.